gooooooooood morning...

well the garage if coming on,, we have cables runningto it.. that don towrk yet.. lol.. minor problem thats being fixed as we speak.. the garden is looking amazing. i have worked my lil green fingers to the bone.. with hedge trimmers, sheers. nd all sorts of other sharp petrol powered manly tools,a dn not it lookd nearly organised...

getting ready for party, adn the winter.. lol.. hopefuly next year my grdne will be lush adn green. with roses and all sorts of lovely coloured flowered, but for now its organised, and de weeeded....
lets see how long they take to take over this time... bloody stingers..

any way. off to tattershall. for bbq on the lake.. should be a good day.. hopefully kids will behave.. if not i m sure they ll will chucked in said lake.. by grandad or uncle alan!! lol... or maybe even me... note to self spare clothes for boyz... lol..infact me too.. no one girl is safe when petes about.. and i have given him some gob this week... lol.. all in the name of fun... lol...

any whooo ciao for now

CAKE.. WE LOVE CAKE!!!!!!

i love the top but not sure if too much.. certainly goes with the theme, and then these cup cakes are gorg!!! love the detail and different flowers all different shades.. but would obviously be pink and creams not lilac.. gott o feed about 150-200 peeps at most.. so got to be enough, but not just one sort, ie fruit cake on top and cupcakes(sponge or chocolate.)not sure yet just throwing ideas around, more to wind stacy up as she wants answers adn i don tknow yet, i m sill looking for perfect cake. haven t found yet,,, ... got ages yet.. lol... shouldnt keep saying that should i.. runnig out of time. last time i looked it was 18 months down to 11 already.. shitttttttt!!! lol..i m not panicking,, if i had aweek i d be cool.. lol.. (let you know when get there..)see how cool i am then!!!??? won t be the arranging i ll be worried about it the whole bloody marriage / curse thing!!!? shhhh love you jay.. hehhehehee... ( quick note. got my 10 year anniversary pressi today. silver bracelet,looks like tiffany -syle.... jay found on his round next to bin.. could quit well be argoos!!!) cheers babe any way.. thought wasn t really there. but he did leave it on side and say e r!!! who said romance is dead?.. ME!!!! lol... shit head ... sometimes i do wonder

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HMMMMMMMMm not sure, but i dolike them both.. just not sure if it s me thats all.. can t i wear jeans and t shirt. with bride written on it/?!?? please,,, lol.. i ll wear heels.// well for the ceremony any way.. then back to converse.. obviously!!

right any way enough of dresses.. cakes it is.. sort that first.. lol.. on stacys orders i need to start making decisions.. grrrr.. easier said than done... ciao.. for now!?

calling all santas lil helpers and fairys..

http://www.cakesbylisanotley.co.uk/gallery-trad2.htm check these babies out then.. bow chick a wow wow!!!

right calling all helpers.. decided it s way too ecxpensive to get someone else i to do food. when theyre all charging £3000+ for the food then more for the euiptment. think i m gonna do it myself.. sod em all...
ie i need helpers.. i m gonna get some of the peeps up here to help so don t worry too much, but def gonna need extra hands for the day or 2 before.. so book it up..
lol... meat from butchers. then get jill in pub to cook it all off... and carve etc.. then salads adn rolls adn everything.. else i m gonna sort my self.. can t believe some people, you mention wedding they chuck another £10 per head.. unreal..

right it s 11pm, my son has been on computer for hours so i ve now got 5 mins to update hitched.. then make some smelly eggi sangas for jay.. then off for bath then bed,,, whilst kicking cameron on route.. as still up and shouldn t be,,, lil shit.. 1 week before school and he s still having late nights.. got to sort this out!!???

sorry another one.. lol

LOOOK SOOOOOO CUTE.... will ruby be too old for this.. cos it s co sweeet... this is a mini merigue... lol but it s allowed for ruby... cos she s gorg.. and this dress is too... lil princess ruby!!!?? tiera ....curls... wow....

flowers

gonna make an appontment to go and have chat with this lady about flowers t give me some ideas.. http://www.wendygoodliff.com/flower-displays.htm

dresses links..

think ..leanne paris and ruby.. but better shoes and hair adn make up.. and opbviously ruby WAY cuter!!!!

hhttp://www.jillysbridalstudio.co.uk/main.htm

www.pure-bridal.co.uk/08pure_gallery3.htm

stacy this is down road from us.. on way to spalding... 2/3 village i ll book this one.. loved loads of the pure bridal one... check it out..

see above the dresses i quite like...

http://www.touslesjours.co.uk/index2.htm

have look at the bridesmaids bit please.. this is the dilema.. bridesmaids.. length and colour... most o the pink dresses i ve seen look tacky to me..(in the colour on the invites..) so if we go a line do you think it would look good with pink flowers rather than very pink dresses????? answers on a post card.. lol... have a look see what you think.. not sure... but not panicking it s your job to keep me sane.... plus not sure whether you wanna wear totally different to leanne adn paris.. and ruby wear mini version of mine.. HELP ME!!!!!! GET SURFING... PLEASE AND ADD ON HERE ON E MAIL ME... THANKS.. love you... hehehehehe

http://www.sweetart.co.uk/ what do you think???? have a scroll through site.. give us an opinion.. THANKS

surprise!???

wow.. where to start.. well there i was friday evening,,, quietly realxing on sofa, jay on the other,, when camerons come running dwnstairs.. SOMEONES IN THE GARDEN.. before i could i get up and have a look.. who comes running in the living room???

STACY.. al the way from dover.. ie 3 and half hours drive away???... shock isn t the word.. followed then by ruby.. which wasn t a shock really.. but then ROBIN, who i wasn t expecting... then 5 mins later.. my living room was full of dog! yes she brought libby and buster too. which is fine. but when you combine a chocoolate lab who s the size of a small bear.. and black lab whos only slightly smaller.. and then mine springer.. it was madness... and to make things just tha little more fun. meg has only just come out of season,, so buster thought his luck was in.. if he knew what to do that is.. so they spent 3-4 hours chasing around the livingroom, through the hall and back through the kitchen, then jumping all over each other. chaos is an understatment!!??

so robin and jay sat back and chilled with a vodka and beer,, whileme and stacy sorted the beds. the cot the kids the dogs... menhave such a hard life don t they...

o that subject.. saturday we ve got up i went to work stacy watched the kids,,, then robn got up and they went for break fast.. well if it wasn t for the fact that tesco don t do break fast, they do starbucks? whooops forgot that minor detail.. so they came back with whole chicken for robin,,, bless his lil appitite... so i got back from work.. me and stacy took the youngest ones. nate and ruby shopping, while the men took cameron up the pub for some boyz time.. so we met them thre for few beers.. 6hours later.. 2 drunken arguementive men fall through the door, followed by a gobby sugared up 8year old.... fun.. so after a few words,, ie get your toe out my arse, adn i don t wanna a love. i wanna be left alone. adn you stink you pisshead.. me and stacy cooked dinner!!! steak.. yummy. sunay morning,, i go to work, leaving jay adn robin in bed and yet again stacy holding the babies.. bless her.. come back cook breakfast.. ful english... all full up and bloated,, we headed into village 3 dogs 3 kids,, 2 on bikes.. (nate with out stabilisers!!!!!!) and the men, jay with beer in hand.. pikey!!! lol... (hair of the dog maybe??? )

nope we spent 2 hours ish walking around playing in park.. dogs jumping through fields and kids riding in circles.. we then headed to pub.. again. after a few beers, after a cuple of beers, and the kids having some grub we headed back.. leaving jay up the pub... (on that note... i don t think stacy gonna complain about the amount of time robin spends up the gym any more!!???) lol.. so thats one good reason for him coming.. lol.. he s in good books.. as for jay.. well you see what you think.. check out the photos.. this was at 10pm.. last night.... and he was up for work at 3am this morning.... he is now in pub watching kareoke adn 5 a side footie... while i ve sat on sofa watching chick flick, adn eating vanilla cheesecake.. with clotted cream.. note to stacy.. YUMMY.. YOU CAN COME AGAIN.. as long as you leave me with cheese cake.. wel nice!! and still bloated from raost.. 5 hours ago!!!! good week end.. can t wait till 20th.... P*A*R*T*Y!!!??? oh and lil bit of girlie adn wedding shpping i feel... hehheh. can t wait.. love ya. adn thanks for the surprise. it was a great one!!!

GRAFTIN...

check out the beams..and the partition.. i helped

build and attach

look tomatoes.. i grew them,, lol.. so sad i know.. but nothing ever grows for me.. well chuffed..

and this is the other side of bar.. work in progres. but legs hurt and arms killing from holding ladders up while pete took his time to put brackets up.. 3 sets of double ladders i have to say.. cos i mnot a whimp.. they were heavy!!!??

any way thats enough for today. cos cooking dinner.. roast port crunchy crackling and roast pots.. runner beans (not my chioce, pete bought them,, ) and cabbage stuffin .. gravy.. hmmmm must go mouth watering.. yummmy.. THANK CRUCNHY IT S FRIDAY..

check out the cake!!!

thought this was cute.. add fresh straawbwrrys.. and raspberys to top.. yummy!!


http://www.cakesbylisanotley.co.uk/gallery/choc-cakes/10.html... check this out.. bit diff to what i originally liked, but very cute!!!

12.12am..can t sleeeeeeep!!!

well it s another day... in paradise.. yeh right..
busy bee today. but still can t bring my self to go to bed.. i hate going to bed.. but can t stand gettin up! why is it when you feel totally exhausted your body doesnt and when your body is knackered your brain goes into overdrive.. i think i need some nytol or something,, oh that and air con.. soooo hot and stuffy, but can t open window as scared of the wild life comin in and sharing my bed with me.. moths!! daddy long legs... oooooooooh. no thanks. stick to surfing net till eyes fallout of head or jay comes down and moans he s lonely in bed.. yeh right,, he falls asleep on his feet.. lol.. can hear the snores from here!!!! lucky git..
also.. on the why what and IFs..
why does the school term go so slowly whenyou have to get up at stupid o clock adn the summer hols go so quickwhen you dont!!! only 2 weeks and it all starts again. another year.. lol.. lil nate in full time cameron in class 4or 5.. i can t even keep up.. bless him,, sure it s4!!??? greatmum ain t i.. whooooops best ask him. all i know is that my lil boy turning into lil man.. be growin hair in awkward places soon.. god help me.. 9!!
oh god i remeber what i was like.. so innocent.. but it doesn t last.. and the fact he thinks he s 18 already.. driven a car.. had a taste of beer.. enjoyed a sip of merlot.. fruity yet crisp.. lol.. kids GRRrrrrr... but bless him taught his brother to ride his bike today.. with out stabilisers..only been trying since february when we bought him the power ranger bike he d been wanting for months.. been sat in garage ever since. adn he s been riding 4 wheeler!!?? typical.. but i think he s finally got his confidence.. tomorrow will tell... see what bike he goes for????

any way. it s now 12.12am. best go snuggle up!!! before the keys tapping wakes jay up.. and i get moaned at forbeing online.. hehehhehee.. men.. they think up all sorts? green eyed monster takes over adn it s anyones guess what goes through there heads... night! or is it morning????

great idea...

just got e mail showing this.. great idea. wanted guest book. with a bit of differnce. think this is it.. polaroids and add own message.. great idea!!! thought i d share it with you...


show you garage progress later!!! been woring from 9am.. yes 9am!! does pete not know i m on hol,,, lol.. nearly done full day. then jay came home, so i mhiding... only 6 more packs or wood to put away.. while they build bar.. I DONE THE HATCH THE CEILING.. LOL.. the main structure. they re now doing the pretty stuff.. lol.. well cutting and fitting.. lol easy stuff... note to self.. get nail gun.. for when kids naughty.. there great lil weapons.. lol.. love it.. manly grrrrr!!!

post again later. if get chance.. got a few e mails to look at. hitched is great. got laods of ideas,, check it!!

PARTY!!!! scatter!!

well after spending the day tidying up the kitchen and watching kids destroy the once tidy lving.. i decided there is NO POINT whatsoever in trying to do anything in the name of "deep clean" house while the evil/ messy kids are at home. so i give up! what with no hoover, and no enthusiasm along with a partner in bed recovering from an amzing week end... i can t be bloody asked! so there.. it s officail. I GIVE UP.. manana manana i think.. ( i did however get the evil children to wash up and dry.. this of course now means i have to all again in morning as they are useless/// but they did have a go..
i did however grab an hour today to job hunt, applied to 5 more jobs.. as well as look for catering establishments in the area. and at what price they want to lease it. as it seem s no one now adays deal in freehold? plus i probably couldn t afford it any way??? joys of opeing a business with very little capital.. but detimination and lots of figures adn butt sucking bank managers.. i think i could make it work... lol.. really confident ain t I!!??
any way.. i m off to look at jamaica and barbados.. see if i could handle 3 weeks laying on beach in caribbean?? lol.. my life is so demanding.. lol..
oooh weddding... sorted my budget today and what to do and when,, count down etc.. cars dresses, food catering, tables chairs music etc etc etc.. and decided actually rather go to caribbean than spend about oooh 350 DAYS sorting out A day... plus the whole wearing a big white dress, and give up my surname.is so not for me.. . so wedding s offf we leave next august.. 1st? flight s about ooooooh 2pm.. hope thats ok.. sorry... lol...






joke.. would be way easier... though.. lol..




but not as much fun.,,,,,, PARTY,,, SCATTTER!!!

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lazy sunday after noooooona!!!

well after a 2 hours of scrubbing bogs. and refereeing the little darlings. again. i phoned jay.. chucked it down from 5pm,,, on wards.. hehehehehe.. no thats not fair .. hehehe yeh right.. lol..

but hasn t ruined his week end,, he doubled lined the tent so didn t wake up in wter, like previous years.. bugger!!

he s off to see the scripts and muse today. as well as prodigy and pigeon detectives.. who i watched last night on tv.. (after a nice hot bath,, with pjs on!!! so not all bad. i sat in the comfort of my home on sofa, with coffee and fag, and kids in bed.. i know how to live.. .. lol..

so now. as i ve been shopping, for the basic.s coffee dougnuts bottle of white wine..chilli crisps.. and veg for roast.. i can sit and watch film with the boyz.. hopefully minus the arguements.. you never know!!! wish me luck.. any who.. got to go and laze on the sofa.. speak later... probably 2mw. as could be very busy with captain jack or harry potter> what eer we coose it s gonna be a trilogy... proper sunday!!! LAZY...

good morning

good morning peeps.. after a shaky start, ie having to get out of bed at 7.30.. AM.. yes there is a7.30AM.. i haven t seen it for ages... wish i hadn t bothered,, but unfortuantley in my hung over state, cameron took advantage adn i ended up agreeing to haivng his friend round for the night.. so not only did i have to get up early to go to work i hd to take 3 kids!!! Let me elabrerate,, 3 BOYZ... so after 1 hour of fighting and windin nathan up i decided no money was worth the stress so finished early. ie only earning half my wages,, not impressed. as i only work 4 hours a week end. kinda gutted.. but my sanity was at steak. luckily my boss is very understanding, and saw the steam coming from my head.. needless to say i didnt go to the shop and buy them something nice. i came home and made them tidy up the 2 rooms they trashed last night.. my poor aching head.. i can only say bring out the voddi. be it only 12pm..
so he i sit coffee and fag. hiding in the smallest room of the house.. i get the occasionally child coming in and telling tails on the other!!! or cameron asking if he can drive my car,... go hunting with james. set traps for rabbits.... basically anything that involves danger and pain to nathan,,, VODKA definitely gonna get a hammering today..
where s jay when i need him.. oh yeh in a field, in a tent, waiting for music to begin.... in about 20 minutes... what i would give to be there now... 3 kids and a dog to start with... who i may add is very close to being kicked up the butt. as she now keeps presenting me with presents.. not only by jumping on my bed and leaving her hair everywhere, but now birds... not whole birds either, just a wing or few feathers.. which i know to her is a great triumph, as she s raced across the horse field avoiding the back legs of all 3 horses.. and caught this fantastic gift just for me!! bless her!? stress levels at a max, adn it s only mid day.. i ve got anther 11 hours before bed.. yes it really is that bad. i m counting down already!!!
then it sarts all over again tomorrow.. only got to survive till september then can send them to school.. if they live that long!!!!!

pre V festival... the warm up!!!

what do you call 2 men playing mops and brooms. to led zepplin... .... .... bloody funny!!!???

this was last night whilst i was loking for guitars for them, they found substitutes.... and stuck with them,, rather than guitars.. they had to warm up before the V festival today.. didn t they..... der!! obviously!!??? what do i know.. i am but a sane female?? ish!! bless em... they ve left now. leaving me hung over and drained.. they ve gone for a week end of live music and beer..

last seen leaving morrisons. wth a trolley full of beer burgers and wet wipes. car packed up with duvets adn pillows.. as well as a fridge.. adn stove!!! they re really ruffing it. these 2!! i m sure i ll get a few drunken phone call slater this evening.. lucky me ay? any way i m off the cuddle the sofa .. adn nathan.. adn watch bit of tomb raider!!! and why not!>>

love you sis

off to peterborough

right just a quick note.. the garage is clear and read to be transformed into the party bar. ready for mine and camerons birthday, so be warneddonington, it s gonna be a good one!!! loud adn proud the cridland chapman s know how to party.. live band, lots of booze adn great food. well uness i get too drunk to cook it that is!!?? you know the one.. health and safety comes first.. ie my health adn your safety.. lol..
just off to peterborough to collecjays festival buddy! grrr. good job i like clive other wise he ll be staying here and loking after the brats adn i d be going for the week end of fun fun fun.. in the sun sun sun !!!!!!

any way catch up laters.. like to say thanks to stacy.. she know s what for!!! jay will love what you ve done ill show him later. he thought that picture had disappeared.. silly jay!! lol.
feel the love!!! especailly you stacy.. thanks for listening..!! top of the world again!! for now any how.. hehehehe.. your turn now!>?? joke.. okey dokey diddley pokey!!

how very very cute my neice ruby and my youngest nathan

THIS IS "THE MAN" I AM MARRYING

MY YOUNGEST NATHAN JAY 4 YEARS OLD

MY BEAUTIFUL BOYS CAMERON AND NATHAN

3 days untill V

well today is poopoo. jays sorting his stuff to g to V festival with out me.. fuming.. he s got his tent and his beer, adn clothes at the ready. adn i m gonna be stuck here with the brats from hell. can t believe i didn t get a ticket. what a numb nut!!
guttted..

so .. apart from that.. got to caribbean travel brochures to go through adn australiasia.. looking at fiji and new zealand.. or barbados and antigua/... but not sure what with money and everything, where s best to go. definatley wanna go where no kids are allowed so think sandals is the best peeps to go with.. adults only. as long as there s beaches' and beer.. we re both happy. anything else ie scenery shoping, is a bonus. and ofcourse the bed room has to have room service,
thinking of going for 3 weeks sothere s the option of island hopping.. but again got to check it out..
so thats it for today nothing too exciting, as it s only wednesday.. bring on the weekend..
and couting down to 26th august.. 10years we ve been together. think may ned a beer that day!!! or 6!!! lol.. x

it starts.. hehehehe

WELCOME TO THE CRAZY WORLD OF THE WEDDING PLANNER AKA HAYLEY

yes i ve gone computer crazy and relised how beter to organise my wedding but to create a blog and let you all know where we re, and how stressed it is to get married let alone organising this FANTASTIC day... lol..
i hope i don t bore you crazy or even make you decide it s way too much hassle to come, as with out you it s just a wedding... with you IT S GONNA BE A PARTY TOREMEBER IN MORE WAY S THAN ONE..

with my family and jays friends.. yes you/!!! it s gonna be er FUN???